Blame

2008

How is This My Fault?

There have been beings making the exact same statement: ‘It’s not my fault’ – ‘I am not responsible’ – ‘Anu did this to me, to all of us’ – ‘It’s Anu’s responsibility to sort this out not mine/ours’ – yet have a look: Such words is a statement, of accepted and allowed: Blame – ‘pointing fingers’. And blaming someone/something separate outside of ourselves will make no difference whatsoever to anything/anyone currently – especially the experience within and as self. And we have found that those who ‘blame’ through ‘pointing fingers’ are too afraid to actually look within themselves and realise that they are equally responsible for this current experience of ourselves within this world, within and as self, this existence as any other being that exists – because we’re here.

You can point fingers and blame as much as you desire – but have a look – the experience of you within you remains the same. Thus – the only way you’re able to assist and support you to stop what your current experience of you is within you and within this world: Is to apply you practically here in every moment of breath and stop participation in the mind – for it is your accepted and allowed participation in the mind that is causing the experience of you within you currently in this moment – and you are able to stop it, by standing up within you and taking self responsibility and remaining here focused on breath as you. There are many video interviews that give perspective on how you’re able to assist and support you here in every moment of breath.

Also have a look at this: Within the principle of oneness and equality – Anu is you, all that Anu represents and is exist within each one within existence as Anu represents a part of ourselves within ourselves we have accepted and allowed to exist within and as ourselves. That’s why he existed as he did and had done what he did as ‘who he was’ – because ‘who he was’ as ‘what he had done’ – represents a part within ourselves we have accepted and allowed to exist as ourselves.

Have a look at all and everything that exists within this world – each one of us have accepted and allowed this to exist within ourselves and thus accepted and allowed it to manifest as an experience of ourselves so we’re able to actually open our eyes and see: This is what exists within and as ourselves as the nature we have accepted and allowed ourselves to be and become. We did not once in existence stand up and say: "Till here no further – I will not accept and allow this to continue." That’s why each one of us is responsible because not one has stood up and taken self responsibility – but just accepted and allowed ourselves and this existence to continue as is.

So to stop what has been accepted and allowed to exist: Is to stop within ourselves in every moment of breath through stopping participation in the mind and living here as breath in every moment – so stand up and take self responsibility.’

If you being individually responsible for you, for all of you and why Anu is not to blame is still unclear – I suggest you join the Forum at desteni.org within which we have had discussions with regards to beings asking the same question as we have a search engine on the Forums, you’re able to type in the name Anu and view all the discussions we’ve had.

How Exactly Were We Suppose to Stop Anu?

I’ll present you with some questions and perspective for you to understand that you are individually responsible for why you’re here, who you are and what you’re experiencing within you and this world/existence as you.

Consider this: We have ‘then’ existed in fear, inferiority and separation – the ‘reason’ why we did not stand up then was because of fear, inferiority, separation, the belief that we are powerless and hopeless and that we have nothing that exist within and as us as ‘who we are’ that has the ability to ‘stand up’ to that which we ‘know’ within and as ourselves is unacceptable. We watched and observed ourselves and others become ‘slaves’ to those who were ‘seemingly more powerful’ than us – and thus surrendered to our own fears that existed within and as us, manifested as those who we allowed to enslave us.

And have a look now, with regards to our experience of ourselves in this world at the moment – to what it was then: No difference.

We still exist in fear, we still exist in inferiority, we still exist in and as the belief/idea that we are powerless and hopeless, we still exist in separation as we can’t even trust ourselves, let alone our ‘family’ as all exist in fear of each other. We believe that not one of us has the ability, the power, the will, the strength to stand up within and as self to what has become of this world and humanity, and because of this, we are continuing to accept and allow this world, humanity, ourselves to continue as is – because we remain within and as the idea and belief that ‘we can’t do anything about it – it’s out of our hands’.

BUT there has been a misconception with regards to what it means to stand up for eons of time. Standing up is not about rebuking/fighting/counteracting/initiating conflict or war against that which we do not accept/allow to exist within this world, no – it is about WHO YOU ARE.

And we’ve been making the exact same ‘mistake’ (see the word miss in mis(s)take) for eons of time – we’ve ‘missed’ the point that is ourselves, we’ve missed ourselves.

The mis(s)take that we have been is believing that ‘standing up for what you will accept and allow and what you will not accept and allow’ is an act of ‘war’ / and act of ‘fighting’ / an act of ‘conspiring against’ the ‘forces’ that enslaves, that are seemingly ‘more powerful’, that are ‘seemingly more superior/great’ – but such an act of perceived standing up is done out of fear, not an actual self standing statement. And that’s why human beings have developed a ‘fear of standing up’ because within them, they perceive it to be that ‘something huge has to be done such as counteracting / circumventing the ‘forces that are against us’ – when it is not.

We have been that very ‘force, that very power’ against ourselves – for even ‘believing’ that we are able to be enslaved, for ‘believing’ that we are ‘powerless’ / ‘hopeless’ against those according to our belief that are seemingly ‘more powerful’ – this ‘belief’ existed within ‘who we were then’ and still exists within ‘who we are now’: That’s why nothing has changed since then – and why this world is continuing in the state that it is in – as humanity constantly exist in fear, separation, inferiority, hopelessness, helplessness, disempowerment – thus, it is within and as the very nature of ourselves we have accepted and allowed existence to continue as is – why we accepted and allowed ourselves to be enslaved then, and why we’re now enslaved to our own fears and beliefs within ourselves: Manifesting this world experience as is.

The question: What now? As I have mentioned before: ‘The ‘point’ that we have missed is ourselves’. What would ‘happen’ if each one rid themselves from their fears, their separation, their belief that they are powerless/hopeless/helpless – discovering their own strength, will, determination – realising that that which has perceived ‘more power and control’ within this world can only have it if it is being given to them on a golden platter by many/by masses. In realising that it is through and by the very nature we believe ourselves to be – that this world and the experience of ourselves is what it is in this moment, the very nature of ourselves as we constantly and continuously exist in fear, mistrust, perceived powerlessness, hopelessness, helplessness and separation manifesting what we are and what we experience: That’s it – only our nature.

Because have a look: It was our ‘nature’ as ‘who we believed ourselves to be then’ that allowed and accepted ourselves to be enslaved – and it still exist within and as us in this moment, because we have not stood up to say within ourselves: I will no more accept/allow me to exist in fear, in separation, in helplessness, in hopelessness, in powerlessness and inferiority.

Thus, the question may also be transformed into asking: So how exactly are we supposed to stop what is currently existing within and as this world? The ‘answer to that question is YOU. Stop existing within and as the nature you have accepted and allowed you to be – and that nature is manifested as your mind as the thoughts/feelings and emotions you experience, the thoughts/feelings and emotions reveal the nature within and as you that you are, that you believe you to be and because you believe you to be the mind, you will experience you as the mind.

And have a look: Would fear exist in existence – if no-one exist within and as fear within themselves? No – it wouldn’t. Would inferiority exist in existence – if no-one exist within and as inferiority within themselves? No. Would ‘power’ exist in existence – if no-one exist within and as inferiority/superiority within themselves? No. Would separation exist in existence – if no-one exist within and as separation within themselves? No, each will be one and equal within themselves and thus oneness and equality will exist within and amongst and as all.

Therefore – all that exists, exists because it is by our allowance, our acceptance according to the nature of ‘who we are’ we have become. And we are assisting and supporting each one to purify their ‘nature’ to no more exist in separation, fear, inferiority etc. – but to stand up within themselves as ‘who they are’ that is not the mind.

The question is actually not about ‘how exactly were/are we supposed to stop’: But why haven’t we stopped…’

Exaltation and Blame as Justification

I’d say we’ve existed in deliberate ignorance – and within this ignorance, ignored the truth of ourselves as displayed within and throughout existence for eons of time – and now it’s ‘too late’ so to speak, because we’ve manifested the physical one and equal to who we are as the actual nature we accept and allow ourselves to be, and here’s no where out, we’re living and standing within our own creation that reflect what actually exist as ‘who we are’.