Family

2007 - 2008

Seeing through the Veil

Question:

One of the big issues that come up after acknowledging deeper, life-changing truths is your family and friends. You have managed to see that there is a veil. And when you begin the process of removing your own, those around you notice it. But those around you may be too attached to theirs, so they look at your removing, as an attack on their own.

Perspective:

Human Beings create their reality through the Mind and thus within the Mind, superimposing their Mind-Reality onto Actual-Reality and predominantly refer to their reality from the references of Memory. And, throughout your years of participation with friends and family - you've 'interconnected' within the 'unified field' created of Memory, both within yourself and that of your friends and family; where - all interactions were pre-determined, because the starting-point of the relationships and definition of self and friends/family were based on Memory.

So - everything, the definitions, interactions, experiences and relationships were defined through the mind consciousness system within Memory. The interactions with friends, family were never from/within the Moment, Here - because you 'trusted' your relationships/interactions with them, and they themselves based on Memory and thus in essence trusted your own Memories of them on which you based everything you experience towards them.

So, now - with 'you changing'; your friends and family's 'Manifested Memory Placement' of you within their own Mind is going into 'conflict' with the 'you' in Reality. Because previously, you interacted with them as the Memory/Idea they had of you - where you lived a personality based-on/created/shaped according to how you've defined yourself through others, and so interacted with others as how others saw you and you saw others, never actually from 'who you are'. Now you're no more existing as that Personality other defined you as / you defined yourself as - and that's what's creating the internal-friction in others. Therefore, realize - the process of self-change is and can be quite an adjustment for both self, others and one's total environment; as one realize one's actual effect within self and one's world and the extent to which we're actually self-responsible for ourselves and our world. Therefore, in terms of walking process - Remember, it's for self first - you write, blog, vlog, apply self forgiveness, participate in the Forums - and; as you start stopping, standing and changing internally; you'll start expanding in/through how you live/behave/act.

So - don't deliberately instigate/create unnecessary conflict in your world/reality as attempting/trying to fight with what's here as you; as you do not yet have the actual capacity/understanding as self to direct self as one's world and others effectively in consideration of what's best for all and the principle of equality and oneness, 'cause you have not yet actually lived/manifested that as you, here as who you are and what you live. Therefore, you have to get yourself into a position to direct your world as you effectively and this you'll only be able to do once you've lived self-direction as you, which you start with doing within living/applying the basic tools of self-support and self-assistance. So - take it step by step, breath by breath and work with what's here in the moment within/as self First - it all starts with YOU first.

(Sunette)